Drug and Alcohol Addiction Treatment: What Happens at an Intervention?
 "Intervention is usually undertaken because the family is tired of watching a loved one destroy himself," says Daryl Samson Program Director at the Orchard drug and alcohol addiction treatment center. He has been an interventionist for 15 years.
"The addicted person is often the last one to know their condition. Denial can be thought of as an acronym for Don't Even Notice I Am Lying. Addicts actually believe their own lies -- that's the delusional nature of addiction. This is true of both drug addicts and alcoholics. There are the same negative consequences in all areas of their lives" he says.
Most often the families bring in the interventionist as a last resort, says Samson. They've tried everything else from giving him or her money, imposing restrictions, hiring he or she in the family business, letting he or she live in the basement, etc. These are enabling behaviors and do nothing to help the addicted person.
The actual intervention is the result of extensive planning. The first step is to find when a bed will be available at a drug addiction treatment center. Those who will be involved in the intervention are sent details of the process to make sure they are all "on the same page." A two hour pre-planning meeting is set up with all participants (except the addict) in attendance. This involves education about addiction and an explanation of what happens in treatment.
"The pre-planning meeting is often a very cathartic and therapeutic experience for family members," says Samson. Addicts tend to compartmentalize their lives. They will always take one person, whom they identify as a "softie," and get them to enable their habit. For example, "I haven't eaten in three days. Please give me some money. Don't tell Dad." (The money is spent on drugs or alcohol - not food.) People are amazed to learn that others in the group have heard the same stories and lies.
At the pre-planning meeting the family members agree to write letters expressing their love and concern for the addict. Each letter ends with, "I want you to seek help today" and may also outline consequences if the person does not go to treatment (e.g., or you will not be allowed to keep working in the family business"). By the end of the pre-planning meeting each participant agrees to withstand the emotions and reactions of the addict.
The interventionist vets the letters and meets with the group just prior to the intervention to plan logistics. The intervention will come as a surprise to the addict. For those participating, the intervention is emotionally draining. The interventionist is not emotionally involved and, therefore, cannot be manipulated by the addict.
At the intervention each participant reads his or her letter. This is a very emotional process. People often see family members cry for the first time ever. The people involved in the intervention are those whom the addict respects and will listen to. Those with whom the addict has a bad history are not invited.
The addict is being asked only to consider how his or her behavior has affected others. He or she is not given an opportunity to respond. The family has prepared a suitcase and he or she is off to treatment. The addict will resist but the interventionist will be firm.
Because the interventionist is not emotionally involved they will not back down. It's crunch time - the addict goes to treatment or suffers the full consequences of his or her behavior. In most cases the addict will have a moment of clarity and will go to treatment.
"It's a great moment when an addict accepts help," says Samson. "Intervention works because the family then recognizes the problem. They can now start to work on overcoming the trauma in the family caused by the addict and their behavior."
"Through intervention the addict is given the opportunity to enter treatment that could be life-saving."
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Daryl Samson, MEd
Program Director
Daryl Samson specializes in the assessment, treatment, intervention and monitoring of addictive disorders and chemical dependencies. He possesses a unique combination of educational, professional and personal experiences that enable him to relate easily to those suffering from addiction. Daryl has 15 years of experience in addictions treatment and credits Dr. Ray Baker of HealthQuest as a mentor who influenced his approach to interacting with addicts and their loved ones. Daryl is a model of balanced recovery and is passionate about instilling hope in the hopeless and helping them meet their recovery goals. |
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